How to improve my social network?

. Well i have made a couple of friends in work but am finding it very hard to organise anything with any of the people outside of work. The one is an asian so is very family based and never has time at all, my friend andrea is always busy and so far have only managed to go out with her once or twice and then theres my male mate matt who me,my sister and her mate meet up with him every other friday and go clubbing. Me and matt go to lunch in work now and again but im worried bout trying to make a friend of him as he has a gf who is in uni and dont know what will happen when she comes back. Im just finding the whole friend making process a bit frustrating at the mo so any tips at on how to make more friends would be great

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Work is a bit limiting, how old are you, early 20's? Look for something that others of your own age are doing where people talk rather than just yelling at one another in a club.

Do some voluntary work. Helping other people out when they need it can really get a bond going very quickly and make you feel part of something.

Join a club that involves lots of socialising. Ideally one that you learn something through, possibly sport or art. By making yourself a little bit vunerable you will find people offer to help you or you have a very good reason to ask for help. People are flattered when asked for help.

I have to say that after school days the number of people I knew dropped. Having a child has very quickly increased my social network. I wouldn't recommend it as a way just yet though!

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Go to parties and pubs, talk to everybody and maybe try meetup.com?